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Sun Haven: Romance and Gifts Guide

Learn how to date, and make your way down the altar in Sun Haven.

Sun Haven puts you in a fantasy farming world with a large cast of characters for you to meet, befriend, and romance. However, it can be a bit daunting to figure out what someone’s favorite gift is, or how to romance them without fault. Here you’ll find our complete romance and gifts guide for Sun Haven.

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Sun Haven Romance and Gifts Guide

There are currently a whopping 16 datable characters in Sun Haven. You’ll romance them by increasing friendship heart levels through gifts and conversation, and you can eventually marry your favorite. You’ll want to know some key points before getting started though. Here are the key takeaways.

How to Romance Characters in Sun Haven

  • Gain friendship hearts through conversation and daily gifts.
  • You’ll need to reach 10 hearts with a romanceable NPC to date them.
  • After reaching 10 hearts, purchase a Love Letter from Bernard for 25 Community Tokens and gift it to the NPC to make your relationship status official.
  • Dating an NPC increases the friendship level to 15 hearts.
  • You can date multiple NPCs, but you can only marry one.
  • Once you reach friendship level 15, you can propose and get married.
  • You can date while being married without repercussions.
  • Have a change of heart? You can file for divorce at the town hall for free.

How to Propose Marriage

Marriage has some benefits in Sun Haven. You’ll be able to access an NPC’s house at any time of day, receive gifts, experience new dialogue, and even sleep at their house. Note that you can only be married to one NPC at a time, so be sure you’re single and ready to mingle before you propose. Here’s how to get married.

  • Date an NPC and reach friendship Level 15.
  • Go through all of the new dialogue with the NPC you’re dating.
  • Purchase the Wedding Ring from Bernard for 100 Community Tokens and gift it to them to propose.
  • The wedding will occur the day after the proposal.

Romance and Gifts

You’ll want to give gifts to date an NPC, but it can be tricky figuring out their preferred presents. Each NPC has their favorite and least favorite gifts — so you’ll want to make sure you’re giving the right items to increase hearts. Loved gifts will gain one full heart, liked gifts provide ¾ a heart, and neutral gifts provide ¼ a heart. Here are the ideal gifts for every romanceable character.

Gifts for All NPCs

  • Red Rose Bouquet
  • Blue Rose Bouquet
  • Havenite

Female Gifts

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  • Love: Shimmeroot, Diamond, Small Money Bag, Cheesecake, Persian Love Cake, and Wine.
  • Like: Raspberries, Wheat, Black Forest Cake, Eclair, Red Velvet Cake, Red Velvet Cupcake, Amethyst, Gold Bar, Gold Ore, Ruby, and Sapphire.
  • Dislike: Coal, Stone, Catfish, Anne’s Record, Anne’s Wedding Ring, and Anne’s Pearl Earrings.
  • Love: Blue Moon Fruit, Lavender, Pumpkin, Shimmeroot, Berry Pie, Blueberry Salad, Carrot Cake, Carrot Juice, Mushroom Pie, Glorite Watering Can, and Sunite Watering Can.
  • Like: Tadpoles, Beet, Candy Cane, Carrot, Caribbean Green Soup, Flan, Red Veggie Soup, Adamant Watering Can, Copper Watering Can, Iron Watering Can, Mithril Watering Can, Smal Mana Tome, Cooking Pot, and Earth Crystal.
  • Dislike: Crab, Steak, Meat, Creamy Beef Stew, Chicken Noodle Soup, Catherine Record, Catherine’s Wedding Ring, and Catherine’s Charm.
  • Love: Fish and Chips, Fish Taco, Fish Tempura, Any Sushi, Any Sashimi, and Spring Roll.
  • Like: Sandstone Fish, Wheat, Wool, Cinnamon Apple Pie, Mochi, Mochi Covered Strawberry, Romance Record, XBK One Chance, Sapphire, Ruby, Diamond, Animal Food, and Amethyst.
  • Dislike: Dorado, Seaweed, Glass of Pure Water, Pet Leash, Sand, Sunite Ore, Mithril Ore, Adamant Ore, Copper ore, Gold Ore, Iron Ore, Coal, Kitty’s Record, Kitty’s Wedding Ring, and Kitty’s Cat Toy.
  • Love: Tikka Masala, Buttery Beer, Appetizing Ale, Sunite Ore, Small Mana Tome, Large Mana Tome, and Fire Crystal.
  • Like: Greenspice, Heat Fruit, Pepper, Strawberry Juice, Energy Smoothie, Hot Sauce, Spicy Catsup, Spicy Shrimp Ramen, Sweet and Spicy Shrimp, Spicy Ramen, Blazeel, Flame Ray, Hearth Angler, Inferno Guppy, Magma Star, Molten Slug, Pyrelus, Scorching Squid, and Searback.
  • Dislike: Blizzard Berry, Candy Cane, Snow Pea, Snow Ball, Brr-Nana, Blizzard Berry Stew, Candy Cane Ale, Brr-Nana Smoothie, Earth Crystal, Lucia’s Record, Lucia’s Wedding Ring, Lucia’s Fire Orb, and Water Crystal.
  • Love: Stuffed Casserole, Hot Chocolate, Buttery Beer, Egg Hash, Creamy Beef Stew, Creamy Mushroom Soup, Glorite Bar, and Sunite Bar.
  • Like: Milk, Glass of Pure Water, Appetizing Ale, Apple Juice, Pickled Veggie Salad, and Veggie Kebab.
  • Dislike: Lynn’s Record, Lynn’s Wedding Ring, Lynn’s Shield, Sugar Cake, Chocolate Cupcake, and Chocolate Cake.
  • Love: Globfish, Purrmaid, Red Velvet Cake, Withercake, Snappy Plant, Crown, and Heavy Crossbow.
  • Like: Red Velvet Cupcake, Chess Board, Refined Concrete, Refined Plastic, and Refined Glass.
  • Dislike: Xyla’s Record, Xyla’s Wedding Ring, Xyla’s Queen Chess Piece, Diamond, Amethyst, Gold Bar, Gold Ore, Bone Gift, Old Boot, and Rel’Tar’s Mark.


  • Love: Acorn Anchovy, Acorn Milk, Berry Pie, Carrot Sword, Cinnamon Apple Pie, Raspberry Pie, Seared Acorn Anchovy, Barrel of Swords, Glorite Sword, Sunite Sword, Rel’Tar’s Mark, and Health Woven Scarf.
  • Like: Berry, Fruit Snacks, Mushroom, Mushroom Stroganoff, Mushroom Risotto, Creamy Mushroom Soup, Mushroom Pie, Incredible Attack Potion, Iron Sword, Mithril Sword, Adamant Sword, Copper Sword, Heavy Crossbow, Crossbow, Egg Crossbow, Elven Crossbow, Incredible Attack Potion, Attack Potion, Advanced Attack Potion, Gold Bar, and Gold Ore.
  • Dislike: Vivi’s Bone Dagger, Vivi’s Wedding Ring, Training Dummy, Pepper, Bitter Beer, Buttery Beer, Coffee, Demon Coffee, Pumpkin Soda, Spikey Soda, Sucker Soda, Sweet Melon Soda, Tombmelon Soda, Moonplant Cola, Kraken Cola, Eggplant Cola, and Grape Soda Pop.

Male Gifts

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  • Love: Tomato, Tomato Soup, Tomato Bread, Tomato Salad, Apple P{ie, Vampire Piranha, and Vampire Squid.
  • Like: Apple, Apple Juice, Cinnamon Apple Pie, Spaghetti, Claude’s Performance Record, and Record Player.
  • Dislike: Claude’s House Key, Claude’s Wedding Ring, Claude’s Record, Garlic, Glass of Pure Water, Steak, and Wood Plank.
  • Love: Coffee, Demon Coffee, Hot Chocolate, Giant Teddy Plushie, Giant Blue Bunny Plushie, Giant Pink Bunny Plushie, Giant Pink Teddy Plushie, Giant Purple Teddy Plushie, Giant Teddy Plushie, and Chef Hat.
  • Like: Wheat, Barley, Sunflower, Cinnamon Spice Latte, Hearty Pie, Cookies, Coal, Fire Crystal, Flour, Scythe, and Log.
  • Dislike: Liam’s Record, Liam’s Wedding Ring, Liam’s Oven Mitts, Cinnaberry, Pepper, Cinnaberry Jam, Sweet and Spicy Shrimp, Spicy Shrimp Ramen, Spicy Ramen, Spicy Catsup, Greenspice, and Red Veggie Soup.
  • Love: Painted Egg, Lotus, Berry Fruit Salad, Blueberry Salad, Tea, Tomato Salad, Hydrangea Cupcake, Pickled Veggie Salad, Citrus Salad, Cobb Salad, Potato Salad, Sesame Rice Ball, Spring Roll, and Chicken Noodle Soup.
  • Like: Lavender, Sunflower, Tulip, Tea Leaves, Flower Flounder, Sand Dollar, Painter’s Easel, Fried Rice, Mochi, Spaghetti, and Spicy Ramen.
  • Dislike: Jun’s Record, Jun’s Wedding Ring, and Jun’s Diary.
  • Love: Steak, Pot Pie, Mashed Potatoes, Buttery Beer, Lasagna, Hearty Pie, and Creamy Mushroom Soup.
  • Like: Milk, Veggie Kebab, Armoranth, Iron Ore, Copper Ore, Copper Helmet, Iron Helmet, Adamant Helmet, Mithril Helmet, and Sunite Helmet.
  • Dislike: Crossbows, Nathanie’s Helmet, Nathaniel’s Record, and Nathaniel’s Wedding Ring.
  • Love: Kale Juice, Yucky Green Juice, Caribbean Green Soup, Citrus Salad, Cobb Salad, Honeyglazed Apple, and Wooden Windmill.
  • Like: BLT< CHeeseburger, Roasted Turnip, Coffee, Trail Mix, Blueberry Salad, Blueberry Muffin, and Beginner’s Apple Pie.
  • Dislike: Apple, Swords, Crossbows, Wornhardt’s Record, Wornhardt’s Wedding Ring, and Wornhardt’s Stethoscope.
  • Love: Ice Cream, Nachos, Pizza, Meat, Wood Plank, Hardwood Plank, Hardwood, Bournemouth Bass, Bone Gift, and Bark Fish.
  • Like: Waffles, Steak, Tin Can, Cheeseburger, BLT, Apple Core, Hot Sauce, Old Boot, and Log.
  • Dislike: Donovan’s Dog Toy, Donovan’s Wedding Ring, Donovan’s Record, Wooden Torch, Yucky Green Juice, Purrmaid, Pet Leash, Eclair, Fire Crystal, Animal Food, Coffee, Chocolate, Chocoberry, Chocolate Cake, Chocolate Ice Cream, Chocolate Milk, Chocolate Pretzel, Chocolate Pudding, and Chocolate Tart.
  • Love: Flan, Red Veggie Soup, Leaf Sole, Large Mana Tome, Small Mana Tome, Sky Ray, Two Peas and a Pod, and Water Crystal.
  • Like: Grapes, Honey, Lightning in a Bottle, Caribbean Green Soup, Peas, Pot Pie, Roasted Turnip, and Capes. 
  • Dislike: Vaan’s Record, Vaan’s Wedding Ring, Vaan’s Ruby Ring, Swords, Sand, and Sand Castle.
  • Love: Devilfin, Ghost Pepper, Withercake, Steak, Enchanted Glorite Bar, Enhanced Glorite Bar, Glorite Bar, Glorite Ore, Glorite Sword, and Sunite Sword.
  • Like: Spiked Salmon, Armoranth, Cinnaberry, Orchid, Pepper, Red Velvet Cake, Red Velvet Cupcake, Spicy Ramen, Adamant Sword, Iron Sword, Copper Sword, Mithril Sword, Bone Gift, Darkness Essence,  and Diamond. 
  • Dislike: Wheat Seeds, Apple, Sunflower, Darius’ Record, Darius’ Wedding Ring, Darius’ Royal Heirloom, Dead Log, Dead Heavystone, Elven Heavystone, Elven Log, Elven Stone, Haunted Log, and Log.

Well, that’s our romance and gifts guide for Sun Haven. Since the game is in Early Access, there’s a chance more romanceable characters will appear in the future, so we’ll keep this guide updated as the game develops. For more tips, tricks, and walkthroughs, take a look at our growing Sun Haven guides hub here.

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